Lately i've been hearing "love doesnt exist" "niggas aint sh*t" and so on. I cant help but hit some of yall who've been hurt with the simple truth. LOVE does not have the same meaning for both sex. Sounds like malarky (lol) to ya but it is true.
Men idea of love is simply respect. Men have Egos, its all about being a better men then every other men she's had. Women its all about True love and its deep down emotions. If you still cant grasp what im saying i got u. Let me elaborate.
When a men reach love, yes he have emotions included but thats not all. He is sure that you are HIS and nothing will come between yall. He feels that he is in the safe zone with u. What happens if you cheat? "Lordy Lordy Lordy" Thats when santa new address becomes hell. When a female cheat on a guy, we take it as ultimate disrespect...its not much about the act, its about weakening their ego..Letting another dude take his throne. Still think its BS? Let me Just Give you few Examples. --->
SEX: Men doesnt have sex mainly for pleasure. Nutting is not as exciting as some claim it is. As men our goal during sex is to BEAT right and last real long. RIGHT? If a men cant hit it right, or have a small penis or so females drop jokes about them. Which kill their Ego as a MEN.
BREAKUPS: When you break up with a guy, Most act like they dont care right? Yes, even if they are begging u to comeback, they dont do it openly. They never act like they want u back by their Dudes. They complain for attention and so on. SOUNDS LIKE AN EGO RIGHT?
COMMUNICATION: Its mainly true that most MEN treat their mate different when they are around other men. They dont act like their in love if they are...its just too punkish...They dont say i love u. and so on. GOTTA KEEP THE MAN FIGURE. They also wanna be the leader of the relationship most of the time. Its hard to find a balanced relationship. The guy always the boss, daddy, that nigga and so on. Although most women claim its far from that but at most time it is.
NOW THINK ABOUT IT (summary)
I am not saying that Men dont fall in love; Im saying that their idea of love is not what females consider love. Yes both male n females idea of love have numerous similar characteristic but its not the same. For the male its all about the EGO/RESPECT. Thats why we make jokes about sexing each others chick, thats why we brag about how good we sex females and brag about having big penis, thats why we get deeply hurt and forgive less, thats why we sex more females when one hurt us to show that we can have better. and so on. ITS ALL ABOUT BEING THE BEST AT OUR JOB. BEING THE BEST MAN FOR THE FEMALE....SO IF ANYTHING MAKES US FEEL LIKE WE NOT DOING IT WELL. IT KILLS US.......THATS WHY SO MANY DONT COME BACK AFTER BREAK UPS, AFTER FEMALES CHEAT AND SO ON.
---NOT SAYING THAT ALL MEN IDEA OF LOVE IS RESPECT..JUST SAYING MOST OPERATE LIKE THIS THATS WHY SO MANY HURT FEMALES, SINGLE MOMS ETC. ---
I WANT TO HEAR YA THOUGHTS...TELL ME IF THIS SOUNDS VALID?
